I'm a Monkey
The quickest way for a guy to lose my respect is for him to show up at some person's house, meet some girl and cuddle with her for the entire movie. I admit that it might be in consent with the girl, that it means nothing other than a better way to enjoy the movie, at which point I'm just jealous.
However, there are also the times where she will take it to mean more than had ever crossed the guy's mind and he doesn't even know what it is he's telling her. I've come to expect the latter from all of the situations that I've seen.
I will often lean more twards the latter probably because I have yet to experience the consent of what I like to call a "cuddle buddy". In fact I've never seen a successful cuddle buddy situation (as far as I know), she will always interprate the action in a whole nother way thus making me into one of the jerks that I dislike so much.
Since my mission these attempts haven't happened often, but I should probably just stop trying all around because the results have never been good. :-(
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You know, I was thinking about this very subject last night. I haven't done much of the cuddle buddy thing... Mainly because it's not just girls that read too much into things. Last night, however, there seemed to be a little bit of that action going on... With a guy who I know isn't interested... and who I am not interested in. Just for fun. I'm sure there were some who thought that I was doing it to make them jealous... but the fact of the matter is, I'm not. In a couple of days, though... I'll probably regret it.
Ah, but it's better to be misread by idiots than to be the idiot and lead somebody else to misread you. (You're not held accountable for the others actions.)
Please, teach me oh great one :D
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